IF WE LOVE OUT OF OUR CENTER, ITS NEEDINESS NOT LOVE

Difference between love and neediness

WE LOVE OUT OF OUR POWER WHEN:

• We doubt ourselves, are afraid, feeling vulnerable, excluded, feeling like I have nothing to give! 

• We pay more attention to our environment (people, situations, things) than to my inner being 

• I make the other person big, as she or him is essential.

• I make my partner's needs more important than mine.

• I need everyone to accept me and no one to reject me. 

• I WANT THEM TO GIVE ME BY FORCING, COERCING, MANIPULATING.

• WE BLAME OTHERS OF NOT LOVING ME BECAUSE THEY DO NOT DO MY WILL..

We grew up and out of the need to belong, to be adequate and accepted, we focused on the outside world. We believed that we would find happiness outside and the opposite. THIS IS OUR ADDICTION and these programs create what doesn't work, what disempower us, no matter how old we are, we return to this need to BE ADEQUATE, TO BE ACCEPTED, TO BELONG.

We become children, and this is why we have to dialogue with our inner child. We need to do the work of paying attention to her/him, of making her/him feel appropriate, accepted by us and making her/him understand that her/him no longer needs to look outside for love.

When we observe from The Center, in the PRESENT, we automatically abandon this inertia, this addiction.

We need discipline to stop looking outside and to be in The Center, because here everything is perfect, out of time, out of thoughts, out of needs, out of the whirlwind of emotions and we breathe deeply. Nothing can control or dominate us in The Center, in the Observer, and, instead of anxiety, we enter the Peace of Being, freedom, vibrating in harmony and our body is in perfect health. From here, all your blocks in relation to money, love, health cease to matter. You are in total communion with all that Is. And you breathe deeply. You realize that nothing is coming directly towards you, you become more aware of what is happening around you, more aware that life does not happen to you, but that everything happens around you, and through you, because everything continues. You are no longer in the drama, good or bad, you are just observing. 

In this state, we are in pure consciousness, we are the creator expressing through our body, returning to our body, living from our body, listening to ourselves without being distracted by everything that happens around us. Focused on my inside instead of the outside. 

IF I AM NOT EMPOWERED, I CANNOT LOVE. I WILL ONLY DEMAND OTHERS TO FILL MY EMPTINESS AND HATE THEM WHEN THEY DO NOT DO SO.

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